Same old stuff... just a different day

I got up at 4am this morning, awoken by my 3 year old banging on my bedroom door. I sleep by myself and the kids' mom sleeps on the couch, mainly because she cheated etc etc. Anyways, I get up and take him to his room and lay him back down for bed. Mind you, this is not an unusual affair. Happens most nights, and she just will not get up. I had to be at work by 630 and since it just snowed, I figured it best to just start getting ready and head out early. I usually get a McDonald's coffee and sandwich as well on my way on the weekends. I was able to come home early today since it wasn't very busy and I had extra PTO I had not used. Got home at 1, no ones home... She was at her moms getting ready to go out so I had her drop off our 3 year old off with me. Its now passed 930pm... still not home. I know she hasn't seen our 3 year old most of the day since she dropped him off at her parents house and went shopping... very responsible...

 Well, I decided its time to go do something with my little boy and we went and got his haircut! Not fun. The whole time he kept laughing and moving around saying they were tickling him. Pretty cute but not still at all. And for some strange reason, they had us keep our coats on while I help him for his haircut.... It was HOT. I was sweating like the Sahara in the middle of July. Finally got it done though. I seriously think its been about 6 months since his last haircut. Afterwards I took him to CiCi's pizza to get some, well pizza of course. We ate and played video games for about 2 hours. He would play games that were not working and not care. Don't you wish you were that age again sometimes? We got home about 6 and we played games around the house for hours. Pretty good times! Still managed to do dishes and get 4 loads of laundry done. It would be nice if someone else did something..... yeah..... I got the little one to bed at a decent hour after a bath and such. I'd say I'm pretty exhausted now.

 Figured I'd write a couple things down before I head to bed shortly. Number 1: She left cough drops on the table, menthol halls. He started eating them thinking they were candy. Number 2: She left the cooking shears on the coffee table. He wanted to cut things with them but I spotted that quickly. Number 3: I saw some bills around and she is past due, Phone $400, Electric $610. The car payment is due next week, $500, the kids' daycare, $220. The dogs vet bill $200+. But she still has plenty of money to go out with her friends, all day, and go shopping. Sounds pretty irresponsible to me since the electricity is going to get turned off soon. *sigh*

 If I haven't said so earlier, I got approved for the house!! I'll finally be able to leave her behind and get away from the crazy... lazy... irresponsible etc. lol I still worry for the kids everyday however. I know she will not be focused on paying her bills or cleaning the house. The house already went into foreclosure once when she didnt pay the mortgage for 7 months, owed over $15,000. Only thing that saved the house was that I gave her all the money I had. I guess its only money after all, but still, that could have been food and clothes for the kids. Thats a lot of waste and a lot of irresponsibility. Its still astonishing that she can go out all day with her friends and party, but she can't spend a day with the kids alone. Doesn't that strike anyone? *sad* edit: it is now 11:10 and still not home and no word. two things 1: great parenting 2: I'm not your damn babysitter! I love having the kids don't get me wrong. Its the being used part I hate. I almost can't wait to show how much of a bad parent she is. if you can even classify her as a parent. She's around the kids less than the people at the daycare. Helloooooo! The kids keep saying they miss their mommy, what the hell do I tell them?

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